Have you found the quick and easy road to marital/relationship bliss?
I haven’t but I’d love to know the ‘SECRET’. Is there one??
God knows, I’ve looked for great marriage insights in books, videos, articles, courses, and interviews. I curate my sources so they’ve all been valuable. Yet putting it together in a ‘love plan’ (translate – ‘plan of attack’), is daunting.
I heard a CBC interview with Eli Finkel. He’s a professor of social psychology at Northwestern University. He’s also the author of “The All-or-Nothing Marriage”. He uses a brilliant video called “The 3 Minute History of Marriage in America” to set the stage for his ideas in presentations.
SOOOOOO – the good news is that we can have (or create) the best marriages/relatioships ever. A marriage that our grandparents and parents could never imagine.
To give you a peek into Eli’s book and ideas – I’m sharing a couple of links. Google your heart out if you’re hooked and want more info – there’s a lot out there.
The link below is for the CBC interview (audio attached and printed interview too), where I learned about Eli Finkel’s book. There’s a short summary of the “LOVE HACKS” to help remedy a marriage/relationship. It’s also loaded with other links too – if you want to head down the rabbit hole:
If you want more of the ‘hard science” experiments that led to Eli’s ideas and books, you’ll want to click on the link below:
I have “The All-or-Nothing Marriage” on my wish list. I haven’t read it yet – but will. If you have – please share your review in the comments below. Also, please share any marriage/relationship magic that you’ve learned along your journey. We can all use a helping hand.